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But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.
A lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending.
We had some turmoil in between and I thought I wouldn’t hear from him again.
My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…
He gradually started acting differently and as a result, you’re much more interested in him now than you were in the beginning.
In other words, he learned how to act if he wants to get rejected by you and he learned how to act if he wants you to chase him.
I will answer your question in regards to “getting him to chase you,” but I think it would be worthwhile to do a self-check as to what you’re really after here.
When he was pursuing you, you felt like you had control and could choose whether or not you wanted him around. You came back together and over time, things changed.